First off I would like to say thank you to all who replied.
Linderella: That is true my last doc told me he thought that I was not producing enough of the hormone Testosterone. Although I did not have him do a pap or anything, but had told him about my periods being all messed up. I could see how hormones could cause much of what is going on.. Thank you for being so understanding, and for giving me something else to consider rather than cancer.
Hollygirl: Please keep me posted on your results on the 16th. I had always been very vigilant to have a pap done every year since I first became sexually active, but after what happened in 2001 I think it just reminded me of a bad time. That and I havent had insurance since then.

I don't know about if you wanted menopause or not but I have wished for that. I suffer horrible pain during mine and even worse during ovulation, but I've been one of the cursed to have started my periods when I was 8 soo it has sucked forever. Good luck and keep us posted I will look for you on the board.

losingit