I'm sorry to hear about your mom. My MIL just stopped Xeloda. She was also on it since Oct. 04 and could not continue taking it because of the effects it is having on her heart. Before Xeloda she went through 3 other types of chemo over the past 2 yrs and now they are going to put her on an experimental drug. What comes after a certain type of chemo depends a lot on what she's been on before and what effect it had. In my MIL case certain other drugs are not available to her because she had her lungs fill up with water that is why they're putting her in this clinical trial. I wish i had a clear answer for you but the decision about treatmment is really on a case by case basis. You are both in my prayers. Please let me know how things are moving along.