STH73

Thank you so much for asking. I feel so lucky to have found this message board. You are all so supportive!!
To answer your question; My friend just returned from a 2 week vacation to visit her family (which she had planned before her diagnosis, and I'm so glad she decided to go through with it). She goes for a Mastectomy on Wednesday morning. While she was gone I went to her place with a couple of our closest friends and cleaned the house from top to bottom, so she shouldn't have anything too tiring to do before her surgery. She can spend time with her daughter and do the things she likes to do, like gardening, etc.
It sounds like she has her surgery day pretty well planned out; her sister is going to take her to the hospital while her hubby is taking care of their little girl, so I am just waiting to see what else I can do for her.
I have told her about this message board. I'm not sure if she has checked it out yet, but I'm sure she will; I've told her what an amazing group you all are.
Thank you again for your support. I value anything that can help me help my friend, and you are all so great!!!