Sometimes we don't know what to say, but love and attention speak louder than words. Just be there for them, even if it's just a shoulder to cry on. And of course if you are in a position to be pro-active, i.e. live nearby, you can do little things like errands, or cooking. Always keep up a good sense of humor. "A merry heart doeth much good".

Selfless love is what we all need.