Cinda:
The port is not that big a deal... I'm assuming that you are having the mediport implanted in your chest like me, unless your not in the US, and they seem to favor the ones Ktee describes. The port itself just hurts after surgey. They do it with mild sedation, so you are just in and out of sleep. There is a small incision on your chest, and depending on how muscular you are, they have to fish around to snake a tube to your jugular (where another small incision is made.) You will be able to feel the port, but no one will see it unless your shirt is off. I was in pain and had a lot of bruising. They told me I was very muscular, which kind of made me feel good (31y/o male at the time... still a male!). Afterward, I had pain killers but it was done on a Friday morning, I took the day off... and recuperated over the weekend. It healed pretty quickly and they were able to hook me up to pre-op chemo 2 weeks later.
I'm also assuming that you have rectal cancer since radiation is the treatment protocol. That's me too... did the same thing. I "Worked" during it, but some days the fatigue was incredible. Nothing you probably can't hide by not telling if you don't want to. Depending on what Stage you are, you probably will have to tell at some point (after surgery during post-op chemo). I got really tired toward the end of my pre-op chemo/rad and was unable to work because the burns start to show from rad around the buttocks and genitals... we'll help you through... and I just felt terrible. Some make out better, some worse.
As far as the "pump" goes for the 5FU.. it's like one of those "fanny packs" people used to wear in the 80's. You can conceal it. You will have to go in daily for leucovorin too, again assuming, but you can probably schedule for after/before school or during free periods. If you can at the end of the day it's better so if you get tired.
I know this all seems so surreal right now. Your head is probably spinning. It will eventually sink in and you will be angry and sad, and feel lots of different stuff. Feel free to vent too. We STILL DO. BTW I'm now 33 and I guess you can call me a one plus year Survivor!
Hang in there!
Warm Regards,
CancerDad
PS Sorry for meeting under these circumstances, but Welcome.
PPS Cinda: I looked back and remember your postings now... I apologize. Just so you know, I was 28 when I began bleeding... My Internist dismissed it too, and I never got referred to a gastro. There are MANY of us who are diagnosed at ages well before 50. I wish doctors would start to recognize this fact! They think it might be genetic for me too... Have you tested positive for HNPCC, and how about testing before beginning the chemo/rad. All they need is a tube of blood. I have two boys already, my wife and I always wanted the third though. I have started the process of testing... met with the counselor, etc... just need to give blood.-- CD