As always I return to this board for advise (for which we are truly grateful).
Hubby was scheduled for ultra low anterior resecetion on 1st August, unfortunately, when the colectral surgeon went in, he assessed that the tumour was stuck to the wall of the bowel and it was not in hubby's best interests to continue so he elected to not continue.
Hubby now has a permanant colostomy bag (which he can live with ......he says he has grown accustomed to his bum bag ....gotta love his sense of humour
The surgeon told us that the there was no change to the liver (after 6 weeks of chemo) and that the mets remain.
He is home now and resting until we go back to the onc. any suggestions as to what questions to ask the onc would be very much appreciated.
Thank you as always for your comforting and informative suggestions and advise
Maria_z