Hi:
I'm glad you found the questions helpful. The reason I asked about the staples versus sutures for the anastamosis (the connection bowel to bowel or rectum) is because suturing can tend to narrow the lumen (size of the tubular opening). Stapling tends to allow for a neater, greater sized anastamosis, which will reduce your risk of developing stricture or narrowing later on. It is true, however, that a male pelvis is smaller than a females and doing this type of surgery can be difficult to reconnect depending on how low they go. So, many surgeons do use a stapler when they can. The problem is, sometimes a stapler can't fit in a male pelvis, so manual transection is necessary. They will use another round type stapler though (or try to) in order to reconnect the bowel.
Also, suturing versus stapling the skin is a comfort and cosmetic issue. Staples provide a better looking closure, unless you have a surgeon who will do a meticulous closure. However, typically, surgeons have their residents close the skin incisions. Lastly, staples for skin closure can be more uncomfortable than sutures.
I wish you the best of luck.
Regards,
CancerDad