BrighterDay...hang in there ...I only read the first 2 of your posts and my heart went out to you. My dad was diagnosed with renal cell carcenoma 8 years ago and he lived for 5. And through boards like this I know of several who have had the kidney removed and had the cancer metastisize (?) and they are still fighting.
Please dont give up , and most of all dont let him give up.
My prayers are