Kidney Cancer Warriors WL - Cancer: Kidney Message Board

lilsis1071 · 07-29-2008, 04:18 AM

Good Morning Ladies and warriors,

All are in my thoughts today. As most days. I am sorry if we all dont get the chance to chat as often. Seems like a lot has been going on for all.

I havent had it as hard yet. I know we all have the strength to get through this. I will continue to be a shoulder to lean on. I know its not the same as being there in person. Wish there was a way I could!

Please keep in touch and I will have you all in my thoughts and prayers.

A Friend Wendy

lilsis1071 · 07-29-2008, 11:58 AM

Good Afternoon,

Ellen , you are a great lady. You have been through the journey and yet continue be a support to others. Thank you for that!! Remember we will be here for you also. As the journey will never be over.

Mary Jean, You have such a heart. You are right to have others help. You need to be what you are Stanleys wife. As you are and have been and I am sure will continue to be a care giver too. I praise you for your strength and compassion. We all are here for you as well. For as long as you need.

Nancy, You are family !! Your very welcome here. I know its not a place any of us wanted to meet. However friends do help and your correct it makes you not feel so alone and think your the only one. I had never heard of RCC until dad got diagnosed and now its around every corner.

Jackie and Keith are especially in my prayers and thoughts. Miss u girl.

To all my friends here thoughts and prayers as always.

Dad will see doc on monday and will let you all know whats going on. Had pet scan yesterday. CT tomorrow. I feel it inside things will not be good. He is in more pain and well anxiety is really getting bad. Dont want to jump the gun here. I'll let u all know next week.

A Friend Wendy

me1957 · 07-30-2008, 04:28 PM

Friends !
no better word to describe what we all are to each other.
Thanks for all the kind words to everyone.
The CNA came here and did such a wonderful job and he did so good with her and my sister. I stayed out on the patio and let her do her work.
Another day with him here physically but not my Stan.
I love and so and I love him enough to let him go on home with our LORD.
Blessings to all every moment in our lives !!!!!! Mary Jean

lilsis1071 · 07-31-2008, 04:52 AM

Mary Jean,

{{{{{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}}}} to you and Stan.
I am there with you. Just in not in person. I wish I could be though. I think you are a wonderful woman and you are doing a wonderful job.

Please keep us posted and know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.

A Friend Wendy

me1957 · 08-01-2008, 04:39 PM

Hello to all
We are still on our journey and things here are ok. At times there is monents where Stan is kind of there with me if that makes sense to anyone. I treasure those times and YES it does give me hope that he will get up and be ok but I also know I need to be realistic.
He is total care and I know how awful this would be for him so every day I tell him it is ok to go if he is ready and that I will be ok. That is all I can do. I HAVE to keep reassuring him but I also know he can see right through me. He can tell , he knows me so well but I keep telling him in the beginning it will so awful but as time goes on it will be tolerable and that he will always be in my heart as I know I will be in his.
I pray all is doing as good as can be expected !!!!
I come to this thread every so often to vent and to see how every else is doing.
God Bless Love Mary Jean