Sbeth1966

Pam,
As you have learned thus far, the statistics are dismal; but that is all they are...statistics. My husband is 49, was dx on Memorial Day 2004 with Stage IV non-small cell lung cancer with mets to the brain in two spots. We, also, did not learn of the lung cancer until he began having headaches and the brain tumors were discovered. I'm not sure what your father's treatment plan is; Bill (my husband) had to have one brain tumor removed during emergency surgery within hours of it's discovery. Since Memorial Day he has had a lobectomy to remove the tumor on the lung, radiostatic gamma knife surgery to remove the remaining brain tumor, weekly chemo since July 5th, 35 rounds of radiation to the lung site and just completed 14 rounds of whole brain radiation for 5 new brain tumors discovered last month. When he was originally diagnosed with NSCLC, the oncologist told us that 2% of the patients with his diagnosis will survive up to 5 years. Shortly thereafter, another surgeon informed us that the MEDIAN survival for my husband was 9 to 18 months and that was because he was young, healthy and a non-smoker. We are not focusing on any statistics, but focusing on enjoying our time together whether it is short or long...taking each day at a time. I understand your perspective though, I spent several weeks wanting the raw truth so I could be prepared. Unfortunately, there is no simple answer. Every patient is different and will have a different treatment plan and a different reaction to that treatment. Be prepared for the worst, but don't miss out on precious life that is yet to be lived. Best of luck to you and I will keep you in my prayers so you have the strength to get through the difficult times ahead.
And by the way, YES...there are many many stories of people surviving long beyond their families and doctor's expectations.
Love,
Beth