Granny diagnosed w/end stage lung cancer - Cancer: Lung Message Board

JaggedBlossom · 01-04-2005, 03:14 PM

I don't know what kind, I haven't yet spoken w/my dad...only my sister who was in charge of relaying the message to me.

I am just here to read and wanted to introduce myself in case I have any questions later. I am still trying to process everything. Not necessarily her death, that doesn't bother me...she deserves to be in peace.

I am more concerned with what feelings I will have left over after she has passed.

Thanks in advance, prayers and good wishes your way.

renee_ky · 01-04-2005, 03:19 PM

Sorry you had to, but glad you found this board. Hopefully, any question you might have, someone can answer.

I have never lost a grandparent. I did lose my husband to lung cancer recently. But, I will help you as best I can, and will pray for you and your family.

Renee

JaggedBlossom · 01-04-2005, 03:29 PM

thank you renee

I appreciate it. My brain is swamped right now with fear, anger, sadness...just so many emotions.

I am 400 miles away, so it's difficult knowing that the last time I saw her may be the last time I will ever see her.

We are a super small family. Just her, her four children, and five grankids.

Super dysfunctional too, which makes me even that much more upset.

For Granny, I am happy. That woman deserves to finally be at rest. I don't think she's rested a day in her life.

Thanks again
Toni

renee_ky · 01-05-2005, 12:00 PM

I just noticed, there is a thread called "death/dying", you may also find this thread usefull. Just wanted to let you know, in case you had not seen it.

Renee