| | can someone tell me what to do or say?
I'm hoping someone can tell me what to do or say to help my friend. He just found out three days ago that his brother has a kind of lung cancer(starts with a "c") and he is in 4th stage. He has two in brain that they were able to shrink a little , i guess for immediate relief. They gave him 3-6 months. I, myself have advanced lupus and i view these things a little differently than most. I have taken control of my own treatment and have been very successful with keeping my symptoms at bay for over a year now, but i have extensive training in self healing and alternative treatments of disease, my friend does not. I can teach him not to have fear or to teach his brother how to think to allow his body to do naturally what god designed it to do . it took me years to get to where i am now. He asked me to do some reserch for him and when i began to serch the net i found nothing that would help me help him. I will be honest i do not know what im looking for and i feel helpless to give any support. I must be able to do more than just "be there" i simply have to find something amid the vast seas of info that will provide some understanding and support. I need help. Im not use to talking to some one about cancer who does not see things from the metaphysical view point that i do