HI, I cannot answer all but, when my kids were fussing with me in my attempt to take care of their dad, just lately, I told Hospice. The Hospice nurse came and spoke with all of them at the same time. She explained away their complaints. Now, my kids listen to my opinion. Somebody, has to have control. One of my daughters actually, dumped out my husbands Moriphine. I found out way too late, that i had been giving him "Water"!! Grr! Just because, her dad wanted her to do it, thinking it was making him "sleep too much", she never should have done that!! I could 'wring her neck", as i always heard growing up! But this is a 32 yrs old child of ours! I have to be STRONG! I have to ..for my husband's best interest!! I am naturally, a timd person, so this is my challange!
Don't be afraid...when you are right...stick to it! We have to live with our selves after we get through this. As for saving hair..I want a tiny bit in a locket. But, he has lost all of his as his organs are shutting down.
May You be blessed with all the help and guidance you need...and me too.
Yesterday, i learned , i am being left with $27,000.00 credit card debt, all in his name. All, of which i was not allowed to spend a penny of!! Some days are hard. I send you tight hugs, Donna