I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my mom last January at 59 to lung and brain cancer (lung being the primary). The loss is so great. The only thing we can be sure of is that they are at peace right now and not in any more pain.
Take care and again I am so sorry for your loss.
Originally posted by MomOf4PreciousHearts: I'm sorry for your loss. I lost my dad last year to lung cancer. Looks like I may join him in a few months myself. Restaged to stage 4 last week.
I am so sorry to hear your news. I was praying for you. I am also a mother of 4 and i know you must feel so much pain for your children. I will keep praying for you, it looked like you had a miracle almost a month ago with the doctors not finding the cancer when they operated. How did they find it? Are you comfortable? Make sure you take advantage of everything they can offer you.
Take care and please keep posting. You have friends here. Michelle
Hi Nancy, I'm ok. I'm so sorry to hear about your Dad. It's just so sad coming here. I read almost all the posts but responding means having some thing to say and sometimes I just can't find words. I hope you and your mother are comforting each other. Isn't it strange worrying about people we don't even know. Like poor Walter. I wish I could talk to him. He may be in pretty bad shape right now. Donna is another one I really miss. Or situations were so simular.
I wasn't very close to my father so I can't say I know how you feel. I imagine the greif almost unbearable. I go to the cemetery at least once a week and I beg Danny for signs. I'm going to see John Edward in May. It's actually the first thing I've really been excited about in over a year.
There I go again, I'm not good at comforting others. Just remember that I'm thinking about you.
Just hearing from you is comforting. Thanks so much for replying. My father and I were best friends but the grief isn't unbearable because he had a wonderfully long and fulfilled life. I miss him terribly though. I keep thinking I have to call him to tell him about the Boston Red Sox then I remember he is gone.
I can't imagine how it feels to lose a partner. I think of you always and everyone here on this board. That is cool about John Edward. Make sure you let us know how it goes.
I went to my Dad's gravesite today and just made sure everything was okay. The flowers from the funeral on Tuesday are still there.