| Re: Sclc
My late husband, who died of sclc this past Labor Day, was diagnosed last march with mets already in liver, bone, bone marrow and a couple of lymph nodes. Nevertheless, he began both radiation and chemo immediately, even with this as the starting point. Two real gifts to share with you come to mind:
(1) we met a physician, who visited my husband 11 years since his own diagnosis of sc at stage III. He claimed surgery, some cutting edge chemo and prayer, heavy on the latter as his understanding for why he is still alive.
He was was a gift of hope--while I knew of few long term survivors, I could say I knew of one.
(2) I really believe that treatments, radiation and chemo, gave my husband the gift of this past summer. Even though he never went into any kind of real remission, it did stabilize the disease, kept it from spreading for a little while. and that meant one more full summer, nearly symptom free, with his boys (7 & 11) and with me.
I think every one has to listen for what makes the most sense for themselves. I don't think everyone is supposed to fight as hard or in the way my husband did. for some all that treatment would get in the way of precious days of living, but for him, they really did add both quantity and quality of life, if only for months and not for years.
hope this is helpful somehow. blessings for you mother in law's journey, for healing and for discernment of what that looks like for her. and you too.
shalom, cam
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