Hi Caza,
I just had my second treatment of the chemo combo Conan mentioned ... carboplatin/taxol. Have to tell you I was scared to death of chemo as I watched my mother die in 1979 horribly from cancer , and radiation and whatever it was they gave her (think they implanted some radioactive material inside of her!!!!!

)
BUt things have changed and chemo actually turned out to be not too awful. It isn't wonderful, but I can still get out of bed, shower, get dressed everyday and eat pretty normally. And the side effects lessen after about 7 days. THe side effect I hate the worst if the flu-like achiness, but that only lasts about 1-2 days. Some people apparently sail right through it with very little side effects.
It is surely worth trying and can shrink the tumors and make her feel better.
Faith