I cant tell you the best out of the two. Ive heard great things about both cancer centers. I would definately get a second and even maybe a third opinion. See what each place has to say. Im sorry you and your wife are faced with this. I went through this with my mother. By the time she was diagnosed she was extensive small cell. It had spread to alot of places.
I will be sending prayers your way.
Think positive, there are people who have gone into complete remission.I pray your wife will be one of them.It does happen. Keep your faith.