hi
In my opinion, and you're right, everyone has their own opinion, the only safe tan is one that is sprayed on. But that also depends on your genetic make-up and predisposition to skin cancers.
I myself have been down the malignant melanoma road. I have a pre-disposition to burn, so now I either cover up completely or avoid the sun at all cost. I get the sun on my face from sunrise to about 7:30 or 8:00 AM. That is enough to avoid the blues that come from not seeing that bright yellow ball at all, and my vitamin-D comes from a bottle.
The way I see it, that inherent "animal instinct" to protect yourself from the sun would have obliterated the entire disease eons ago. Man is somewhat addicted to the sun. Maybe our bodies crave more vit-d than they need, or maybe we don't give it what it wants... either way, families that have the genetic markers for skin cancer (fair complexion, burn easily blah blah blah) should have bred them out like a 6th finger. Haha... makes you wonder if Hitler had been successful in his genetic warfare and made the "perfect blonde hair blue eye fair skin'd" race, melanoma and other skin cancer rates would have soared!
Lordy I probably stepped on some toesies there... my appologies to any I may have offended.
~Kaelie
in addition to melanoma and peripheral neuropathy, is now suffering foot&mouth disease