Re: Doc says "very suspicious" for melanoma
First off, good for you for going to see your doc. I had several suspicious looking moles, and I waited for a while to go to mine. Thankfully nothing too serious has happened - but it's definitely something you don't want to fool around with.
I've had several moles in various places removed, with the most recent ones being on my right armpit where your bra strap would start and the other right in the middle (I kid you not) of a butt cheek. (tmi?)
Both times I did not feel ANYTHING... you have nothing to worry about. It wasn't until a few hours later and definitely the day after where the one on my butt really hurt. But that's only because getting in and out of the car really put some pressure on the area. If yours is on your stomach you might have some pressure when you get out of bed and in and out of the car, but you should be fine. Good luck!
PS) They are actually really interesting to watch, if you're into that sort of thing!!