Re: Husband Do Nothing - possible skin cancer
Get him to write his "will", take out extra life insurance. If that does not get his attention, you will need to prepare yourself and children for the worst.
Ask him if he has his life in order and ready to meet his Maker? If not, suggest he get busy to prepare himself for the best or worst after life.
There is no reason worthy of his taking a chance on his life.
The mole needs to be taken care of NOW.