Re: I have nowhere to turn..need advice :(
I just happened to stumble on this. I really don't know all that much about throat or oral cancer; however, one thing I have learned about cancer is this: it doesn't help to worry about anything until or unless you actually have anything to worry about. Your ENT has given you antibiotics to take - which could very well take care of the problem. You will go back for a follow, if there is no improvement, see what happens then. If you start worrying now, you will only succeed in stressing your body out.
As far as having all the symptoms? I really don't find that surprising. A lot of times symptoms can be somewhat vague, or we can be so anxious about a potential diagnosis, we imagine ourselves having every single symptom. I remember when my father was studying Health in college and he stumbled on Throat Cancer. He suddenly had this tremendous sore throat and a whole host of other "symptoms" that were solely caused by throat cancer. He was firmly convinced he had it and he was going to die from it. My mother convinced him to go to the doctor, he underwent a bunch of tests, and sure enough: he was healthy as the proverbial horse.
So, take a deep breath, continue your course of antibiotics, take care of yourself, get plenty of sleep, STOP SMOKING NOW (it really is one of the worse things you can do to your body), and try to remain calm. If/when you have something to worry about, worry the heck out of it! But now? You really don't have anything to worry about.