Hi Vpilant,
I probably can not answer your questions. I just want you to know that I will listen if you need someone to talk to.
My father also has renal cell caranomia (spelling) . He also had his kidney removed and was told it was all gone. A year later they said it had spread to the lungs, a rib, and a few other places. He has been on Sutent and seemed to be doing well until recently. We have just found out it has spread to the pubic bone and possibly to the hip. (not in any pain at this time)
Maybe you could answer a few questions for me. How long was it before did a hip replacement from the time they found it in the hip? I am worried for my father as I dont want him to be in pain either. Does the doctor suggest any pain meds like morphin drip or even a oral pain med?
Hope you know I am here to listen if need be. This is a awful disease to deal with.

Wendy