Holidays are so difficult when caring for someone very ill or even terminal (especially if this will proably be their last). My mom most likely will not be here next year (she has been living with extensive stage small cell lung cancer for almost 2 years now).
I want to wish everyone a very blessed and Happy Thanksgiving.
Enjoy your mother while you can. I lost my father September 26, and Mom on 1 November. Thankgiving was miserable. Christmas is yet to come. Give her all the love you can.,.....