Originally Posted by lilymi
In November the love of my life had a terrible car accident. He was basically crushed from the waist up by the car. The worst of it was the extensive brain injury he has. He was in comma for 11 days but came out of it. Now we are dealing with life after the accident. We found out in September that we were pregnant and were very happy about starting our own little family. When he woke from the comma not only did he not remember we were having a baby, he didn't remember me either. It broke my heart. In the last few months some memories are coming back to him. Bless his heart he has fallen in love with me for a second time. I can't even imagine what he's going threw. His friend that was in the car with him will never walk again and he feels very guilty about that. He was a very hard worker. If not at work he was working on his farm. He has nothing left in his life really bue. I try to be everything for him but its not enough. I miss him dearly. I'm going threw this all alone. Trying to prepare for the baby by myself. This is not the way it should be. How can I help him to experience a little joy in life. Joy for our love, joy for life, joy for new family? How can I help him to love life again?
All that you and your husband are going through and have already
went through is so so so tough. I can see you love him dearly and
are completely committed. You are both blessed to have each other
in spite of your immense circumstances. Stories like yours are still
an encouragement to us readers because of your genuiness and
press on attitude and the love in your heart that is so easy for us
readers to see also. At least it is for me.
A wide range of feelings to deal with daily in your heart and your desire
to do all that you can do to share in your husbands contentment and
joy. You are remarkable!
I will be back to chat more again,