Re: At my wits end!
you sound like you need a break honey. Its terrible that you are on your own coping with this, but you have to find time to take care of yourself, or you will be no good for anyone else. First things first, get a good nights sleep! Life is damn hard enough without looking at it from a sleep deprived angle.
I assume since they kept your partner in hosp for 5 days that they did all the usual scopes and scans? ...and found nothing? Maybe he has a condition like spastic colon...i know this can be very painful and comes on at times of stress especially. I had it years ago and boy did i have to learn quickly how to relax!! If you are worried abt him then take him right back, better to be safe than sorry, but stand back and look at the situation first...get out and clear your head bcs right now you're in the thick of things and ye maybe just rubbing off eachother?