| Re: CP and Behavior
My son does the same thing, opening and closing doors. I think it is also because it is something that he can control, and he is good at. I've always let him do it because it is encouraging for him to stand, and to move his body with him doing the work. He also likes to open and close drawers. It can get quite bothersome, but I know he likes it. Sometimes I get so mad, and I have him stop, and he stops. It depends on what kind of mood he is in. His physical therapist said that children with CP have an on and off switch. They are either happy for the moment or they just shut down, and loose it. This is normal because they have a harder time processing something or something has built up,and they just loose it for something simple. You have to be just as stubborn as the child. Yesterday when I took Peter to aquatic therapy, he decided that he wanted to crawl in the waiting room. He has been very good about using his walker, or holding my hand, but no he wanted to crawl. He literally started to have a fit, and I kept saying NOOOOOOO, you have to walk. You can't crawl, we don't crawl here. It was terrible. He wanted something his way and he just shut down. There was really no reason why he was doing this. He cried and cried, but eventually he got up and used his walker. It was horrible because everyone stared, but I was proud because I encouraged him to use his walker, and he then did it. AFter his therapist came out to pick him up from the waiting room, he was fine. He acted like nothing had happend. This behavior scares me because it just happens, and depending who is around ie....mother-in-law, mom, or my husband(deployed right now).....I don't know how they will react. I know they will just encourage his behavior(do what makes him happy) and I know that is the wrong thing to do. Maybe I'm a mean mommy, but as parents you know what to do. We'll see how things go. Never a dull moment, that's for sure...
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