A tip.... allow him to wipe with baby wipes, toilet paper is rough and hard to handle. Baby wipes are a little softer, as well as bigger so he wont accidently get anything on his hands.
Listen, it takes a while. This is perfectly normal. Your child is four years old, you are his mommy, it is your job to help him with these things, thats just what mommys do. Most children do not wipe themselves after only being potty trained for a few weeks or even months. It takes a while. Please don't act annoyed towards your child even if you feel like you shouldnt have to be doing this for him. Help him when he needs it. If you need a time away then take a little break and have his dad watch him for a bit. It may not seem like a big deal to you but children are very sensitive and if he knew you were annoyed at having to help him it could really hurt him emotionally.
"It's a damn poor mind that can think of only one way to spell a word!"
Last edited by * Free ~ Spirit *; 11-07-2003 at 06:24 PM.