My friend has a little girl, five she is. She was born bald and stayed that way till last year, her hair has now grown nearly up to her shoulders, with blond waves, Her mum now says all the stressing she did when she was bald is now worth it, as she has the most beautifull hair any one could ask for. maybe it is the same with your child, when she finally gets it, it will be perfect.(maybe perfect hair takes longer to grow)?.
Hope i have made you feel better.