Hello. I just wanted to give you some advice, and let you know that you are not alone. My sister (now 21 years old) was born with this problem. However, back then, the doctor didn't do ANYTHING. He just said it was normal, would open on its own and that was that. Well, when my sister hadn't started her period by age 13, my mom was worried, as I started mine at 11 and the GYN told her not to worry until she was 16. Well, the only problem with all of that was my sister looked like she was 18...VERY full chest and VERY curvy. So, my mom didn't agree, but what could she do?? Okay, so at 16, still no period and she took her back. They were going to (believe it or not) tell her to wait until she was 17, but my mom was ****** off at this point and said, if you will just look at her down there and tell me everything looks "normal" then I will wait. WELL, let me tell you....they were going to use a speculum to look at everything, and there was no opening. Nothing....a solid wall of skin. They immediately ran tests (ultra sound, hormone levels, etc.) and sent her to the specialist. It was discovered that my sister was born without a uterus, vagina and one ovary. Unfortunately she cannot bear children. She had to find this out at 16!!! She also could not have sex normally. So, she ended up being scheduled for surgery to "make" her a vagina (yes, they do this) so that she could at least have a normal sex life. However, on the operating table, we were told that they had ordered the wrong size! This, after traveling for 2 1/2 hours and already having an IV done. So, my mom was upset...it was the middle of winter (bad weather) and my sister just wanted as normal of a life as possible, ASAP. The specialist called her 2 weeks later to tell her that they had invented a new system for this problem. They are called dilators and look similar to a tampon. They come in different lengths and widths. So, my sister did this as opposed to the surgery. Well, then she met a WONDERFUL man and fell in love and they got things stretched the "natural" way. So, she is engaged to be married, and they are getting married next year, and planning to adopt soon after.
I am not telling you that this is what is going on with your daughter. BUT a possibility to keep in mind. IF the cream doesn't work (which I pray with all my might for you that it does!!), I would have them do an US and see a specialist. The sooner you know what is going on, the better, b/c if by chance she cannot bear children, she could at least know at a very young age and that way more prepared. My sister dreamed of having children, and cannot biologically (although she does have a good ovary...but they would have to do MAJOR surgery to do this....and they aren't sure they want to do all that and then have it not work in the surrogate). There is a reason my sister cannot have children of her own, but she is very excited about adopting. I really hope you will let us know what is up with your daughter. Again, I hope and hope and pray that this is not her case. I just wanted to share my sister's story and keep your eyes open to all possibilities. And to let you know that if it is this way, that she WILL have a normal sex life an marriage....and children one way or another. Good luck, and God Bless!!!