Hello. I'm 25 and I'm a step mother. My son is 4 years old. I have a few questions and I need suggestions. My 4 year old keeps peeing his pants. I'm starting to use the reward system maybe this will help. Also my 4 year old has never slept by himself. My hubby will always sleep with him. It's been like this since I've known them and came into their lives. From birth he's never slept by h self. When he falls asleep we would put him in his room and then 7 in the morning he'd wake up and stand at our door way just staring. Also just now it's almost 12 am and I'm trying to get my son into bed since its so late. My hubby yells and says he will go to bed when he wants to. Am I wrong? It's almost 12. Also he said that if he sleeps before us. He will wake up before us. I need suggestions and help. I just feel like I should just stop trying to be a mother since I feel like I'm the only one trying. The peeing in his pants. My hubby yells at him for it now. The sleeping together my hubby just says "but I miss him so much" we get him every other weekend and he just won't listen to me.
Long story short: his ex took our son away from his dad/ my hubby at the age of 1. So he feels like he has to make up etc. I need motherly advice or anything. We've been married for 2 years. Please help