Re: Don't know what to do
I would do all that I could to find some support other than this doc, whether that means a Naturopath or some other alternative practitioner or maybe even travelling, if necessary.
CFS/Lyme are real illnesses and not a figment of your mind. Many of us have experienced what you are describing - doctors thinking it's all in your head and advising a shrink. This not only does not address the problem but, I think, is humiliating. There are not many docs savvy about CfS or Lyme, true, but I think that you have to ask yourself what the point is in continuing to see someone who is really not knowledgeable about this illness.
In the end, though, the most gains that I have made were not through seeing doctors (actually, that only set me back) but through my own research and connecting with others who were "in the same boat."
All the best!