I think you might be me, 10 years ago. I'm still suffering at 37, and I'm a healthy mom w/2 kids at home. Dr's treat me the same way. I need pain meds for my pain, but they're all saying I'm too young. I wonder when I'll be "old enough" to actually get pain relief. It really sucks that you're going through this. But like the other people said, keep track of everything you're doing to help yourself, and all the Dr's you've tried (phys. therapy, chiro, massage, etc). They seem to take you more seriously when you have documentation. I'm actually going to see a Physiatrist on Monday, which is one Dr. I've actually never seen, so maybe she'll have something different to say
I wish you luck in your journey to find some help out there. Don't ever give up or it will take over your life.
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