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Old 06-10-2011, 01:02 PM   #1
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I'm codependent and stuck

Okay so i am aware of my codependency. I am working at fixing it. but right now i am stuck in this weird situation. I used to date this guy named josh. we dated for a year and a half and were forced to be apart by the police because i was a minor and he wasnt...we had sex...my parents found out and told the police. so we agreed that we would still talk and try to be together. but i have a new boyfriend now and ive fallen in love with him but i still love josh. i dont know what to do. i feel extremely disloyal by talking to josh but i feel like if i dont he will be extremely upset with me and do something crazy. I mostly am scared of his response... idk what to do. help!

 
Old 06-11-2011, 12:00 PM   #2
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Re: I'm codependent and stuck

from what you posted it sounds like this Josh person might be codependent on you, however, one of the big things about codependency is learning how to take care of yourself and stop trying to take care of Josh, You are not responsible for Josh's actions, you can only be responsible for youself, he is a grown man, he can make his own decisions, if you fear for your life/health, please contact the police.

anytime you're in a codependent relationship with another individual it can seem difficult to leave, but the best thing you can do is going a support group, this was a life saver for me, I think if you already have someone, taking Josh out of your life shouldn't be too difficult.
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