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Old 10-01-2011, 09:39 PM   #16
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Re: What is happening to my family?

All I have to add, that the others haven't said is that you are helping me to see the very infant stage of something growing into your situation.

I couldn't agree more with what Phoenix said that it's the escape to the other woman that you are now too good, firm and SANE/STABLE for his taste now. That he has downgraded himself and that the first love in his life (crack) is dictating the moves. From what my Dr tells me, there is always three people in the relationship with an addict, the man, woman and the other lover- the drug.

The anger and sadness and disbelief are the stages of grief.

I am really so sorry to hear that a fairly sane woman like yourself, with a child, has to be put in unnaturally hurtful experience like this.

I will be praying for you and yours tonight.

God Bless- Anna

 
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