Originally Posted by budnbeansmama
How do I let go and move on while also allowing my son and our new baby to know their father? I genuinely think he may be a sociopath, but I don't know for sure. If he is, I am not sure how to handle the situation, as I don't want him around our children if this is the case.
If he is to see his offspring,make sure that he understands that the visits must be supervised.
Don't take no for an answer.
Explain to him that he has to prove he wants to change and if not,there is no other way he will be allowed to see them.
I seriously doubt he will try to fight you in court for custody.
How do you move on?....
By knowing that he is not the person you thought him to be and tapping into your inherant need to keep your children safe.
Take into consideration that your quality of living with him in the picture is dramatically reduced and he cannot bring anything to the table to help create one big,happy family.