Re: Don't know how to change my thoughts
I don't think this is codependency. You just fell out of love. Give yourself some time to distract yourself from him. Pay more attention to the kid and etc. He is still nice to you but he has told you he does not want to see you. Well I believe that he did that becuase of this herp thing. But I hope you will find someone who does not mind that one day.
Maybe you should work on your own ADHD issue. It is normal to get upset over this for a while. Try to move on and do other things. Try to forget him.
Hope you are better now in April. You are not a failure - your husband gave you herps so it is not your fault. You are brave that you left your husband. It helps if you can find some friends or family for support.
Last edited by ninamarc; 04-11-2012 at 01:01 PM.