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Old 01-16-2012, 11:55 AM   #1
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Some help please

I ended a relationship that was codependent. I was not aware of codependency prior to ur relationship. Things started out as any relationship does but then things began to change He would call me then keep calling until I answered
Then began to ask me if I would commit to him forever we had just met seemed liek the time table now had to move at warp speed from a first date to now how come I cannot stay over, stay in your house while your are away on business
Next he was into cocaine, partying, i would show up at his work with food he was not their, he would tell me his life was none of my business

time has passed ( 6 months) and in theory he wants our relationship back and me back. I do not believe him, as he talks poorly about me and makes fun of me to people, is having sex with 3 different people He told me again his life is none of my business he just wants me for sex
I told him I could not maintain communcation with him any more our past is the past and needs to stay that way
He makes me feel so bad by stating how can anyone stop talking to another person especially someone you loved
I did love him and still have no hard feelings but I am tired of the drama, empty promises, no longer want to fight no longer care He attempts to make me feel so bad for feeling this way

 
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