Anyone had a lower facelift, with the neck muscles also being tightened? If so, could you share your experience with how long the swelling/bruising sticks around, and more importantly how long it takes for the neck to feel less stiff and tight? (I hear it will feel like I'm being choked for a while.) Also, a rather, uhhh, delicate, personal question, lol...hubby also wants to know if the stiff/tight neck will hinder, ummm, my pleasing him orally. (How's that for stating it tactfully?