help with telling parents about boob job - Cosmetic / Plastic Surgery Message Board

stupidcupid · 08-02-2006, 12:15 PM

i have decided after years of saving that i have to do this, my parents have no idea of how much i hate the way i look im 23 5ft8 and 158lbs but not even a b cup! i have booked a consultation for next week to find out more about the procedure and have told my mum who went mad at me crying saying i was stupid and a waste of money and that her and dad wouldnt want a daughter who deforms herself, i dont know what to do this is something i really wanna do and have done for years but is it possible to do this without losing my family? has anyone else been through this??

donnapc2 · 08-12-2006, 03:45 AM

I remember how nervous I was about telling my mom, but it all worked out fine.
If you lose your parents over this, you are better off without them. THey might not like your decision, but it is your decision and they need to respect it.

sharon7270 · 08-16-2006, 05:04 PM

On September 15th, I will celebrate the first birthday of my breast implants. My mother fought me tooth and nail on getting them, but I had been wanting to do this since I was a teenager and was so tired of feeling inadequate, not finding clothes to fit properly, etc. I went from a wanna B cup to a D (5'6" 123lbs). I did what I needed to do for me - without her blessing - and could not be happier. Just do what is right for you. My mom is sooo over it now and most of the time we all forget that this is not what God gave. You are an adult and there is no good parent who would ever walk away from their child...ever. Just do it!!