I have 3 children ages 5, 3 & 7 mos. I AM DONE!!! But would love to have a tummy tuck and breast implants. When is it a good time to have this done? Should I wait till the baby ia older..like a 18 mos? I dont have the money to hire a care taker ontop of the surgery and I know family would help for maybe a week but that about it. Any advice would help.