My mum died on the 22-2-08 - Death & Dying Message Board

Dolphin43 · 02-29-2008, 08:45 PM

Hi to all,

My mum died on the above date of asperation pneumonia she was ill for 8 yrs
as a result of neglect by my brother who thinks i should forget what hes done
no chance iam contacting a solicitor to see what can be done hes made mums bungalow a tip knocked walls down its nt his but thinks cus he lived there for 24 yrs it his bungalow.

He thinks he should be allowed get away with everything he used to give mum6 a day for shopping if that keep rest and ****ed it up the wall?

I have done with him for good.

Dolphin.

IOnlyGet5Too · 03-02-2008, 09:34 PM

I just wanted to send my condolences on your mother's death.

I won't say that I know how you feel because everyone's grief and experiences are different, but I do know what a painful experience it can be to go through.

It took me a long time to recover from my own mother's death. Actually it was my grandmother who raised me (and whom I called "mother") since my natural mother had died when I was very young.

Anyway, my grandmother died 8 months after my son was born and I can vividly remember how hard it was to bear. My son died unjustly this past June so I am sensitive to what you must be going through.