It appears you have not yet Signed Up with our community. To Sign Up for free, please click here....



Death & Dying Message Board
Post New Thread   Closed Thread
LinkBack Thread Tools
Old 05-10-2012, 07:13 PM   #1
Newbie
(female)
 
Join Date: May 2012
Location: cheyenne, wyoming
Posts: 1
tresabranch HB User
having a hard time dealing with my dad dying

about two weeks ago they said my dad was terminal and when he got out of the hospital they put him on home hospice, he use to have have very high BP now its 90/60 and today they gave him what is called a hospice kit. he has been the only true person in my life he raised me alone from the time i was 2 till i was 16 he is my rock.. but now he shakes his hands are so cold and he is so angry all the time when i leave his house im in tears... cause he does not look like my dad any more.. im just having a very hard time dealing with all this.. i want the angels to take him to relive his pain but then i dont want him to go casue i cant think of my life with him not in it..

 
Old 05-10-2012, 08:25 PM   #2
Senior Member
(female)
 
estelle454's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jul 2011
Location: Australia
Posts: 112
estelle454 HB Userestelle454 HB Userestelle454 HB Userestelle454 HB User
Re: having a hard time dealing with my dad dying

Quote:
Originally Posted by tresabranch View Post
about two weeks ago they said my dad was terminal and when he got out of the hospital they put him on home hospice, he use to have have very high BP now its 90/60 and today they gave him what is called a hospice kit. he has been the only true person in my life he raised me alone from the time i was 2 till i was 16 he is my rock.. but now he shakes his hands are so cold and he is so angry all the time when i leave his house im in tears... cause he does not look like my dad any more.. im just having a very hard time dealing with all this.. i want the angels to take him to relive his pain but then i dont want him to go casue i cant think of my life with him not in it..
I am sorry you are sad. You have had a great dad by the sounds of it. Just remember he will always be in your heart. Try to be strong for him, he needs your strength at the moment. It will help him go to the angels in peace, especially knowing he has a great daughter who will always be his shining light. Its sad to see some one fade away. But help him make the transistion with your love for him, be strong. I believe in angels and I think they will let you know when he is ready to go, ask for there help to be strong. Remember when he goes, he will always only be a thought away.

 
The Following User Says Thank You to estelle454 For This Useful Post:
tresabranch (05-20-2012)
Sponsors Lightbulb
   
Old 05-11-2012, 02:59 PM   #3
Newbie
(female)
 
Join Date: May 2012
Location: fremont, ca , usa
Posts: 3
shur1 HB User
Re: having a hard time dealing with my dad dying

do not be afraid estella your love and gentle voice can help him overcome his anger love him more speak softly to him especially when he is angry. he needs your love to help soften him what he looks like is not important it is his very being that needs your care do not be afraid be strong for your father he needs your strength to help him through this journey of his spend these days with him by his side these are precious moments that will help sustain you long after he is gone it is the small things that matter the most those little moments in time with bitterness comes joy both are connected together be strong and brave god is with you and your father............

god bless

 
Closed Thread




Thread Tools

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is Off
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are Off
Pingbacks are Off
Refbacks are Off




Join Our Newsletter

Stay healthy through tips curated by our health experts.

Whoops,

There was a problem adding your email Try again

Thank You

Your email has been added








TOP THANKED CONTRIBUTORS



Phoenix (7), slenderella (5), renko (4), rosequartz (4), writeleft (3), EagleRiverDee (3), rudiraven (3), MSNik (3), beth468 (3), Ivorygirl (3)

Site Wide Totals

teteri66 (1164), MSJayhawk (999), Apollo123 (898), Titchou (833), janewhite1 (823), Gabriel (758), ladybud (747), sammy64 (667), midwest1 (665), BlueSkies14 (610)



All times are GMT -7. The time now is 09:04 PM.



Site owned and operated by HealthBoards.comô
Terms of Use © 1998-2014 HealthBoards.comô All rights reserved.
Do not copy or redistribute in any form!