I read through your post, and I do have another suggestion: a career counselor. You said:"I am looking for a professional to "lay" it down for me step by step for me to help me with some direction for work, school, friends and ect."
The first thing that came to my mind is a career counselor. I am currently attending college and, trust me, there are plenty of them where I am. You did mention school. Have you considered going back to school to earn a degree? One of the first things that many people do, as they have access to these services as a college student, is talk with a knowledgeable person about what kinds of jobs would be best suited to their skills, interests, and abilities. Is this a possibility for you? Also, have you talked with any really close friends/family members about your desire to find a direction in life? They are often really good at objectively telling you what you might be good at/not so good at, as well as things that you may not have thought about doing before.
Please keep us posted on your progress, and share more of yourself with us. I promise that we won't bite