Hi...
I have been on Paxil for almost a year now, and the biggest complaint is the weight gain. My doctor added Wellbutrin once daily to see if that would help with giving me the get up and go, and then that may help to get the weight off. It is also supposed to help with putting some spark back in the sex drive.
There are so many combinations that you can take. You need to be open with your doctor and open to try. Sometimes you will feel like a bit of a guinea pig...but if the end result is feeling better, it is all worth it.
P.S.
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