really just terrified tonight - Depression Message Board

merripen · 04-28-2003, 09:53 PM

It has been a long time since I last thought seriously about ending my life. There is new pain in my life, but I never imagined it would spur such notions.
There's this part of me that just wants to be dead. To just escape this life that doesn't ever seem to be going where I want it to. And it's really terrifying. I am a talented person. I can do all sorts of things that nobody else can do. I am extremely intelligent. And yet, times like tonight, I just don't want to do any of this any more.

Just trying to understand how I can be feeling this way.

holidaygirl · 04-28-2003, 10:42 PM

hi!
I just read your post and I am a little bit scared for you. Are you okay? I know exactly how you feel. last summer I just wanted to escape it all (life). But you say you know you are an intelligent person and that you have many talents, so why would you want to give that up. are you on any meds??? ad's?? anything???? what is going on in your life. I don't really know much about you, but I am up and online, if you need someone to talk to, you can post a reply back to chat more. I know its hard to see past the blue and grey but you can get through this!
Smiles,
Holi

merripen · 04-28-2003, 10:53 PM

greetings holi, thank you for your reply.

i'm not really sure what's going on. i am not on any medication, though i have been diagnosed with depression. i was determined to find a way through it without meds, and i thought it was working.
i am an artist, and i recently started my own imaging and design company, and it's going really well. it's really kind of nuts... i know i have talents and such, and i relaly don't want to give that up. but sometimes i just start feeling extremely lonely. i have a few friends, but can't really relate to any of them on a very close personal level. i was engaged to someone that i was very much in love with about a year and a half ago, and found out she was cheating on me shortly before the planned wedding. yeah, that was a big deal, but i am quite a bit better now. at least i thought i was. during the initial time of dealing with that, i wasn' too good.

but i just don't understand why this happens. i just suddenly and unexpectedly feel absolutely and horridly alone. like all my talents and skills aren't really ever going to matter, because i lead a relatively empty life, very alone. and despite my efforts, i haven't been able to really stop feeling alone.

just typing, feeling like i am talking to someone, that helps, and i thank you. i don't expect miraculous answers or anything. i'm just lonely, and it's nice to talk to people sometimes.

holidaygirl · 04-28-2003, 10:58 PM

I know how a bad break up can leave u bitter (i have been there). I just hope you feel better!

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Jayellcee · 05-01-2003, 09:37 PM

Hi Merripen,

I can relate to how you feel. I too get feeling suicidal at times, though for different reasons. I know that I have lots of talent, but I work to earn my living in a field completely divorced from who I am. (That in itself causes me quite a bit of grief, as I'm sure you can imagine & 99% of the world can relate to). The biggest ongoing source of despair for me is my failure as a parent. My son is turning out less than well because of me. And I am constantly wracking my brain for ideas as to who could raise him properly. The one saving grace for me has always been my inability to organize my home & keep it neat. Imagine messiness as a virute! But in a way it has been because I couldn't bear leaving this disaster area for a family member to deal with. Unfortunately, tonight, I started to not care so much about that as I always have in the past. As it turns out though, the easy methods are not the most efficacious methods...nor the most simple & easy to bear. So, I guess I'm here for a bit longer, responding to posts and hoping to find folks to relate to. I apologize for not being more "other-centered," but I guess I'm just being me.

Thanks for the topic & I hope everything is going alright.

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