i am a 52 year old perimenopausal woman who is on buspar for anxiety but am also dealing with depression. i am trying to hang in there but have little tolerance for the least problems. for example: 3 weeks ago i broke a crown on my front tooth. every week i have been to the dentist cause the temporary kept coming off. yesterday i went to get my new crown and it is to high. he tried to adjust it and it is still to high. he wants me to come back in few days. i left there so depressed. it was like the straw that broke the camel's back. i could feel the anger and anxiety and just wanted to cry. i had a few xanax left and took one. i am in counseling and some days feel strong and capable of handling stress and other days the least little thing throws me. i am tired of this. i would take an antidepressant but i've tried about 4 or 5 with not good results. oh well. thanks for letting me vent.