Originally Posted by Phoenix1
There are many decent men out there; don't give up on us just yet.
Good advice Phoenix, especially about the maturity level of that guy, he certainly is no MAN. I quoted you because I really wonder if there are ANY decent guys out there. Men have made my whole life hell. Of course, I have been sick and I am better. I have not even dated since my descent into this nightmare.
I think I have given up. I try to be friendly, but most guys act like they are above speaking to me. I do not act inappropriately, but say, at the library or some other such place. The only place I ever had a guy talk to me has been in a bar...terrible place or on an internet dating site...horrible place.
I cannot for the life of me figure it out. People say I am beautiful, I am not skinny, but I am losing weight fast because of my new no sugar diet. I just do not get it. I must send out some message that I am poisonous or weird..but I do not get that from anyone other than a guy I speak to or meet on the street.
I don't mean to hijack this post, sorry alone22. You are definitely better off that it happened now rather than after you had invested more of yourself and more time with this guy. I am really sorry you are hurting. Wish I could say more to help.