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Old 09-05-2008, 04:42 AM   #1
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how to get over this

my depression started almost 12 months ago when my partner of 8 years suddenly decided to have an affair with my best friend. i do not seem to able to get over this and although my partner is not with my ex friend yet they still see each other and he still sees me.

just as fiends ????? i feel that he wants her but does not want to let me go, not that he loves me or anything like that.

i just cannot get the two of them out of my head, and up to the point of the affair we were very close and happy. please can someone help.

 
Old 09-05-2008, 07:57 AM   #2
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Re: how to get over this

I am so sorry. Have you been to see a counselor? What you went through is traumatic. Your partner having an affair is bad enough, but it makes it worse that it was with your best friend. You say that you are still with your partner. Have you forgiven him the affair? Do you still see your friend? Maybe you need to explore if you really want any of these two in your life. They have betrayed you and no wonder you feel depressed. Maybe you need to move on with life without them.

 
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Old 09-06-2008, 09:26 AM   #3
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Re: how to get over this

I would move on immediately for your own mental health.

 
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