Hi CB999,
I've been on Effexor XR for 3 months.
My doctor's philosophy is to raise the dosage on this drug very, very slowly.
Let your doc know that you want to take as little of this drug as possible; just enough to get the desired effect from this medication.
The higher the dosage, the worse the side effects with this drug.
However, you just started with it. It took 9 weeks for it to relieve my depression. I would give it more time, if I were you.
Good Luck!
(No, it is not a side-effect of the drug; there really is a little yellow man waving at you)