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Old 12-31-2000, 07:10 PM   #1
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i feel like such a loser

hi! i am 16 years old! i am a beautiful girl i know that but i am heavily overweight 350lbs. i have a huge heart and i love kids and volunteering to help mentally challenged adults etc..i have never had a boyfriend... ive never even kissed a boy i flirt and am definitally into guys.i know that but i am so insecure. i have been scarred for life by my family and their stupid beliefs that if u are over 10 lbs then u are disgusting and not to mention my father sexually abused me when i was young. I havent been able to let my guard down to guys either that or i do it too easily and end up giving too much away and getting hurt! i have found i have a bad taste in guys i always go for the cute bad boys (thugs) they end up being really cute and popular and they only wanna be my friend when their friends arent around. it hurts so bad i cant get anyone to love me i am so depressed because i am soo needy with people especially guys. i end up scaring them away. please help me there is so much to tell and im sure this letter doesnt make much sense without all that other info but i just dont know where to start please help me i need it
thnx Cort

 
Old 12-31-2000, 11:53 PM   #2
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Re: i feel like such a loser

Cort...

Being 16 is tough...I'm in my 30's...and am still stinging from being 16!

I'm overweight also...I'm going to give Richard Simmons a try. He doesn't sell any herbs or whatever...just does a managed eating...or learning to eat correctly.

Don't start anything until you've checked with your doctor though...you want to be careful since you are young and still growing.

Even if you don't want to lose weight...you are a unique and wonderful person. God made you for a purpose...and He doesn't screw up!

God Bless You!

Love, Di

 
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